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NOTE:

This website is only about 80% finished, and has many missing links. I started creating this page in early 2021, at the height of the slanderous posts and falsified evidence being posted everywhere, when the matter was getting increasingly public and affecting my company. I stopped working on it as the activity started to subside.

This website is only made known to a very small group of people for a short period of time. I will probably take it down soon, after confirming that all defamatory posts have been removed, and will not put this up again unless there is a need to in the future.

2022.12.13


Why I’m Making This Site

It’s time I spoke up.

I have always believed that personal matters should be kept private, and even when made public by someone else in a way that is totally distorted beyond anything resembling the truth, with even outright lies and deliberately falsified “evidence”, I didn’t feel the need to have to explain, justify or defend myself. I never really cared too much about what others thought of me, beyond those who were closest to me (just a handful of people), and I always felt that if a person wanted to pass judgement against me without asking for my side of the story, then it’s more that person’s problem rather than mine. At the very least, I had not cared enough to be willing to return to the world of negativity in order to address what’s being said.

Unfortunately, it has now come to a point where I have to speak up, because it no longer just concerns me, but my loved ones, my family, my work places/companies, my colleagues, shareholders, and even some people distantly related to them – almost all of whom are completely unrelated to the matter and are completely innocent victims. If I continue to remain silent, then it’s clear that the lies will get even more outrageous, and more innocent people will suffer (and suffer more) in the process.

I have therefore decided to, once and for all, lay everything bare for anyone who’s interested in hearing the other side of the story. Since the allegations against me are getting increasingly public, and will likely get even more public, I’ve decided to also make my version of the story public via this website. It will be long, because the allegations and accusations against me – and others – are many, so there is a lot (of mainly lies) to deal with. I hope that after this, I will never have to do this again and I can get on with the rest of my life.

Note that virtually everything I say (at least all the key statements) can be proven or corroborated in one way or another. For the more important key points, I have included a lot of evidence in the process – documents, videos, audio, pictures, conversation screenshots etc. – to back up what I’m saying. For everything else I say where I have not included evidence, anyone is welcome to challenge me to produce corroborative evidence, and I’ll spend the time and dig it up wherever possible.

On the other hand, please also note my open challenges to the person concerned to ascertain the truth together with the help of third parties (like the police), including examining Wechat conversations directly on our phones, examining Taobao purchase records, and doing a joint lie-detector test.

Before we proceed…

First, out of respect for everyone’s internet privacy and to reduce visibility through search engine searches, I will refer to the following people by abbreviations:

If you are less interested in what I say and would rather watch and listen for yourself, you can go directly to the Video/Audio Page so you can judge for yourself with your own eyes and ears what’s really going on with the people concerned.

The Key Allegations

These allegations may or may not be the same as what you have read or heard, because what GF says changes from forum to forum, from person to person, and from time to time. I don’t really spend much time reading all the BS she writes, especially when she adds new allegations like on a weekly basis, so if there are new items not covered here, let me know.

Regardless, what you have heard or read is likely to include the following, or be variations thereof.

First, the allegations mainly concerning me include:

And then, we have a whole batch of allegations which concern Z and me (extending to Z’s ex-husband), which include:
Most, if not all, of the above allegations have been posted repeatedly across numerous social media platforms (including Facebook, Sina Weibo (China’s Twitter), 19th Floor (one of the largest discussion forums in China)), told to the Hong Kong court, Hangzhou court and Hangzhou police, and even sent to certain company shareholders, board of directors, and to company staff. I’ve even been called to the police station several times to explain the accusations.

Throughout this time, GF (at her own admission) hired private investigators to dig up information on me, Z, Z’s family members, and even Z’s ex-husband. That illegally-obtained information could actually have been a good thing, in that it should have proven conclusively to GF that Z only came into my life after divorce proceedings had already begun, but instead, it has been used as a basis for falsified evidence (eg. Taobao records) and for severe harassment, eg. by making false police reports (eg. calling the police to my registered address in the middle of the night claiming I was with a prostitute), installing a hidden tracking device onto Z’s car, posting people’s personal information online etc.

Z’s ex-husband, Mr. Zhang, has even been harassed in person at work, and has received threats that he would be similarly reported for being with prostitutes.

The allegations relating to Z have also been sent to Z’s 9 year-old daughter’s school. This was threatened to Z prior to it being done, which Z had the option of avoiding if payment of 2.88 million yuan was paid to GF. If not, then GF would make sure that Z’s daughter would be “driven to suicide out of shame”.

etc. etc. etc.
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Before I deal with the allegations specifically, it would be helpful to first understand some background regarding the three main people making the accusations, ie. GF, FW, and GF’s mother, and what type of people we are dealing with (particularly GF).

NEXT: Who We Are Dealing With