EXHIBIT R29
Certain Wechat Conversations with Grandma (2014 – 2017)
What I’m Trying to Show:
- Grandma often describes the Respondent to me and to others as (amongst many other negative things) someone who frequently lies.
- Grandma also describes how the Respondent has caused FW to also lie and make false accusations.
- The Respondent’s brother Wesley also describes the Respondent’s character in a consistent way.
Grandma refers to the Respondent as 桐妈 (FW’s Mother), which I shall abbreviate as “GF” in the translations below.
1. Wechat Conversation with me on 14th April 2017
“What I’m disheartened about is [the Respondent’s] lies, slander, turning black into white. All of her heartless, inhuman, immoral bevahiour, all go to waste the meticulous upbringing I gave her.”
“Your heart must be very sad. What others owe you, God will surely repay you. Whatever you do please don’t let FW turn out to be a person like her.”
2. Wechat Conversation 5th August 2017
“Fourth Uncle, I am FW. I want to tell you: Please tell Grandma, I was voice-recorded many times by Dad, but actually many times it was because he forced me to say it like that, otherwise he wouldn’t let me go home, won’t take me home.“ “I also heard with my own ears he told Rainbow Luxury’s people that Mom had thrown things from upstairs. I said to Dad, it was you who threw it, why did you say Mom threw it? He shouted at me, and said children shouldn’t get involved. I was afraid he would strangle me again, so I didn’t dare to say anymore. In any case I only want to be with Mom, please tell Grandma not to be on Daddy’s side. I hate him. I think he is a despicable Monster. If Grandma helps him, then she too is not a good person. Don’t let her appear in Court. You can also tell her, if Grandma appears in Court, I and Mommy will let the whole world know that she is a very sordid, despicable and inhuman person. Thank you Fourth Uncle!”
“GF has taught her daughter to be like this – every single word and sentence are lies. Makes one sick!”
3. Wechat Conversation 26th June 2017
“What I am even more unable to accept is how the mother, in order to get a winning hand, forced her daughter to sign a self-cursing poison oath. Therefore her own daughter is now freely at her command, lying without care, giving false evidence, deliberately maligning her loved ones who care for her.” “This is what Wang Xiaoyuan (Yuanyuan) sent me on Wechat, and below is my reply.”
4. Wechat Conversation 5th June 2017
“I’m just telling the truth as it is, but [FW] is certainly being forced to give false evidence, a mouth full of lies…” “FW is being forced to protect her mother.”
5. Wechat Conversation 5th May 2014
“We all, husband, mother and brother, just can’t do anything about her frequently making up lies and fictional untrue stories.”
EXHIBIT R22
Wechat Conversation with Grandma on 14th April 2017
What I’m Trying to Show:
- Grandma believed that the Respondent was violent and manipulative, and had brainwashed FW into turning against her own father.
- Grandma urged me to please save FW, because only I was qualified and had the ability as the only person FW could safely rely on.
It was April 2017 and I had just received a Court summons for a civil suit filed by the Respondent on behalf of FW, where FW was suing me for child maintenance. I took up Grandma’s suggestion to speak with a lawyer friend of hers, called Mr. Jiang (father of one of Grandma’s students). Grandma sent me his contact details and also wrote me a very long message about her thoughts and feelings, saying I should feel free to show it to Mr. Jiang.
TRANSLATION OF CERTAIN PARTS OF THE CONTENT:
Note: Grandma refers to the Respondent as 桐妈 (FW’s Mother), which I shall abbreviate as “GF”.
“GF agreed not to cause trouble at the centre, but there isn’t anywhere outside the centre where she doesn’t harass me, physically abuse me, use FW as her usual means to torment me, by controlling FW. So please, you must issue a valid lawyer’s letter – there’s no other way to give her a warning…Three weeks ago (the day you brought me to report to the police) she was severely violent with me and warned me, if my moving expenses were deducted from her maintenance payments and I still insisted on moving, she would definitely hire someone to harm me. Whether or not I will be killed will depend on how large my life luck is.
She is no longer a normal person, whether she can control her words and actions, I have no expectation of that for her. The only way would be to send her for medical treatment, or if not then let the law take care of her.
Whatever you do please save FW. On several occasions I took blows for her, but what it got was GF repeatedly once, twice, even ten or more times of barking “Did I or didn’t I?”, then she softly said, “Didn’t”. “Didn’t what?” Only then did she say, “My mother has never hit you.” Every time I heard that, it was like a knife through my heart. A fine, intelligent and bubbly child has been used by her own mother as a tool for her many criminal acts.
Day and night she brainwashes FW: “Your father has another woman. You think that woman will treat you well, and your father won’t treat you cruelly? Your father has even abandoned you. He has money to buy a car for himself, but has no money to pay for your child support. If he really loved you he would go sell his car. If you go with him, you’ll surely become his cash-cow going into the entertainment industry and getting abused. Don’t even talk about not paying for good schools – you won’t even need to go to regular schools as it would waste your years of getting famous.” This is why FW feels that GF is looking out for her future, and that you might really ruin her whole life, and in the future she would have no one to depend on.
Actually the person she can safely rely on is you. When children are young they are the most easily manipulated. If FW is freed from her demonic grasp, then only you would be qualified, and have the ability.”
EXHIBIT R28
Wechat Conversation with Grandma on 20th February 2017
What I’m Trying to Show:
- The Respondent has been very physically violent to Grandma
- Grandma feared for her life, and did not rule out the possibility that the Respondent might even one day hire someone to kill her
- The Respondent was prepared to make up stories about what actually happened
This Wechat conversation was forwarded to me. These messages were what Grandma had just sent Teacher Xia, the owner of the Cotton Candy center, where both the Respondent and Grandma taught.
Screenshots and translations below.
TRANSLATION OF CERTAIN PARTS OF THE CONTENT: NOTE: Grandma refers to the Respondent as 桐妈 (FW’s Mother), which I shall abbreviate as “GF”.
“She lets me stay in the study, and my coats have to be hung at the balcony. The study room doors can be used to pass through, and cannot be locked. She can lock me from outside. I long wanted to tell you and FW’s father, in case one day I die, the murderer would be GF. She will make it look like I committed suicide. Or she would hire a killer to kill me. This is definitely possible.”
“Remember when I said trouble happened (Friday night), she gave me two options: One is to commit suicide, two is to stop liaising with FW’s father…”
“So she, even more cruelly than last time, strangled my neck, furiously hit my head, even took the TV remote and battered the left back area of my brain. Until today there’s still a swelling lump. Then she took the fruit salad box I had just finished and poured it on my room floor, furiously pushed me, and because the floor was slippery I could not retreat but crashed into the wooden panel at the foot of the bed. My right [hip] and my lower back was in so much pain that my tears just flowed, and I was crying with hurt and pain. She just gave me a cold laugh: Don’t pretend. You hit yourself, and fell all by yourself. I couldn’t even stand up, and she said no one can give evidence that my mother hit you, you go ahead and report me again then!”
“She also threatened me – if I report her to the police, and move out, she would definitely hire a killer to kill me. Is this a human being?”
EXHIBIT R21
Wechat Conversation with Grandma on 21st December 2018
What I’m Trying to Show:
- The Respondent treats Grandma with utter disrespect
- The Respondent expected Grandma to do her bidding, like a slave, because Grandma was staying at the Respondent’s home. This is very similar to the attitude the Respondent showed in instituting requirements and conditions on me for moving into ‘her’ home.
- The Respondent continued to talk negatively about me to FW, despite her promise not to in the Maintenance Expenses Agreement
Grandma forwarded to me a series of messages sent to her by the Respondent (as she often did). The Respondent needed 50,000 yuan and wanted Grandma to demand it from me. Because Grandma was not fully cooperative, the Respondent sent her a series of messages insulting her.
The messages in red indicate those messages that were originally sent by the Respondent to Grandma, which Grandma forwarded to me. The messages in blue indicate Grandma’s replies to the Responded, also forwarded to me.
TRANSLATION SUMMARY OF SOME OF THE CONTENT:
- Respondent: So long as you are staying at my home, then you must help FW and me. If not, then we will simply treat you as a parasite, to be in our sight but not seen, which is already compassionate given we’re not killing you.
- Respondent: In any case, when you’re lying on a sick bed, I will definitely not go see you. That’s the grave you dug for yourself. Hope your “son-in-law” will go.
- Respondent: FW says, since you’re being evil together with a sinister wolf, she too will not bother with you in the future.
- Respondent: By the way, I’m not in Hangzhou from Monday till Jan 7th, and I don’t feel safe letting you stay in my home, so go find someone willing to take you in. You can come back when I return on Jan 7th.
- Grandma: It was you who asked me to stay with you, and now it’s you who wants me to freeze to death for 7 days outside. Wait for the police to go find you tomorrow!
- Grandma: You have seriously violated the agreement, having FW scold her father as a bad person; it’s all from you talking bad about KL countless times each day, driving a wedge into the deep father-daughter bond they had built up over so many years.
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